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# Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love Paperback – 22 Aug. 2019

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- **What is this?** Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love Paperback – 22 Aug. 2019 by amir levinerachel heller
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## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #10,701 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #34 in Dating (Books) #96 in Love & Romance (Books) #99 in Marriage |
| Customer Reviews | 4.7 4.7 out of 5 stars (8,426) |
| Dimensions  | 5.28 x 0.71 x 7.87 inches |
| Edition  | International Edition |
| ISBN-10  | 1529032172 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-1529032178 |
| Item Weight  | 7.4 ounces |
| Language  | English |
| Print length  | 304 pages |
| Publication date  | August 22, 2019 |
| Publisher  | Bluebird |
| Reading age  | 18 years and up |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ An insightful read that everyone should know about
*by J***T on 28 April 2025*

Liked all the different aspects examples and clear explanations, would recommend this book to anyone who's every wanted to improve their relationships or relationship patterns, and learn to understand themselves better.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Amazing ..  as much as this might fall into pop psychology,  the science is real
*by A***L on 15 February 2025*

The material in this book is amazing. Sometimes a little too dumbed down and a little too pleasing (think drama story telling) to the larger audience ( I enjoy more hard science and facts), the material however is undeniable and with good nuggets of insight to help self reflection and understanding.Having been a student and advocate for attachment theory for a while, I like how this book helps bring it more to the common vermicular and daily discourse. This only helps raise the bar for all of us.Even having understood a lot on this earlier I still learnt loads so can recommend this book to others.Wish you all well on your relationship journeys.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Valuable information here, whatever your personall situation!
*by K***R on 23 August 2020*

This is a really interesting read in lots of ways. It gives a pretty concise and detailed view on how to help make sense of the complications that can arise when relationships break down. It s based on the 1960's theory of attachment, which basically states that humans are hard wired to attach to eachother, but depending on the early years experience, do it in different ways. It doesn't judge one way to be better, but it does offer answers as to why some relationships can sink under pressure or committment issues, or why the communication is dysfunctional. Important to know is that it's fine and natural to be attached and expect attachment to be reciprocal, or to want to be the constant support to a non appreciative partner, as the key lies in understanding what kind of attachment you personally have. Of course there are degrees of influence within this, ie, genes, upbringing, culture,etc, but the different types are really interesting and can explain some conundrums, like why, ironically enough, secure partners carry on supporting insecure partners, even to their detriment, and so on. There's quite a bit of information here, but much of it is quite progressive and applied to lots of common relationship pitfalls. If you're interested in trying to take an objective look at yourself, and wondering why stuff 's gone really wrong, (again!) Instead of blaming yourself constantly, you might just find a good few answers in here. Not just that, it might be a relief to hear how you can look at emotions in an understandable light. If you're seeking spiritual enlightenment, this isn't the book for you....but if you're wanting an intellectual, rational, and fairly objective view about what's really behind common relationship crashes, then this is a valuable read with real insights offered to modern problems. It even has some tips on the warning signs ......and more importantly, why we ignore them so often, which again, can be an insight previously unthought of. Also, this book is easy to read. It's clearly and logically set out, and has some good questions to help the reader think about their own style of attachment, and therefore hopefully gain some practical insights that might just help.

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